What’s happening?

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There are over 20 drafts in my dashboard that haven’t been published. Every time I reread them all I can hear are complaints of everything that has happened the last 4 months. Yes, the last year has been super hard, everyone who has had a child knows it’s hard to even have just one. As I took a shower after both of the kids were finally asleep and my husband went back to work (yes, at 10pm), I had an epiphany of sorts. I need to STOP COMPLAINING and look at the bigger picture!

All I could remember from my day were all the tantrums my toddler threw because “I do it!”, instead of remembering all the kisses and hugs he gave me unprompted. Or how frustrated I was with my husband for not picking up after himself instead of focusing how hard he worked all day, yet still made time to take a family walk and give the baby a bath before bed.

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I’m making the effort now to slow down. Think before I speak/yell. Most importantly, listen. If I don’t listen I might miss something sweet come out of my little guys lips.


Stress, what stress?

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I don’t know what got into me yesterday. My stress and anxiety levels were off the charts.

It might have been a little bit of Rafael putting up a nursing strike, or his eczema getting worse, or Gabriel’s cranky mood.

In just the last month if have done so much better with being a patient person. Tomorrow {today} is another day!

Speaking of nursing strike {prepare for boob talk}: this is my first time exclusively breastfeeding. We have been doing well the last month up until a week ago when Rafael started to want to eat every hour or two after going for 4 hour stretches. Yesterday morning he wouldn’t get latched on. There was a ton of crying and arching his back so I gave up and gave him his pacifier. He slept for half an hour while I held him. He woke up as soon as I put him down, of course. This went on all day. I think we only had about three “good” feedings. I’m hurting pretty bad right now and pumping is no help at all. I don’t think he’s sick so it can only mean that either he’s teething, having a growth spurt or that darn eczema is really bothering him.

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His cheek this morning.

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His cheek before bedtime.

Thankfully it’s just on his cheek, eyebrow and a little on his earlobe area. I’ve been trying Cetaphil lotion and Aveeno’s Baby Eczema Therapy. I guess only time will tell if it will get better or worse. Darn weather isn’t helping either. Yesterday it was 50, today it was 12. Make up your mind!

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David and I take turns getting Gabriel in the morning.

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It’s on of my favorite things to do because I get to see who was evicted from his crib.

Today it was…

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Elmo 2 of 3!

This kid has a zoo of stuffed animals he HAS to sleep with. It’s so darn cute.

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Gabriel pulled off a hang nail from his finger. He kept telling me it hurt so I put a band aid on him. He liked it… for two minutes then he wanted it off.

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Per my request we’ve been brewing the coffee stronger around here. It’s just the way of life sometimes.

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I swear I only love Dunkin’ Doughnuts pastries during Febuarary. So cute and yet so yummy.


So it was Christmas…

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Christmas Eve and Christmas Day were very quiet events at home. Christmas Eve we usually alternate between David’s family and mine. This year we were scheduled to spend it with mine, not until the plague hit the hosting family’s home. My uncle came down with a fever two days before Christmas Eve so my Aunt kept me updated on his condition. We made the choice the day before not to go. There was no way I wanted to risk Rafael getting sick. It was a really good thing we did not go since at least 4 people who went are sick with the flu.

Looks like this is going to be a picture laden post. Bear with me.

 In person you can barely see Rafael in Santa’s coat. This Santa wasn’t as nice as another one we saw at a different mall. Gabriel started to recognize Santa but it sounds a little more like he’s saying Cheeta.030

We had a little bit of a pre Christmas Eve party over at David’s brother’s house on Saturday. Uncle Jo Jo was helping Gabriel show off his awesome glasses here.

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On Sunday we headed over to Aunt Barbara’s house for Rafael’s first visit of which I didn’t get pictures of… but I did get some pictures of Gabriel and David playing with all the awesome presents Gabriel got from his great aunt and uncle.

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Gabriel was scared of the the horse they got him. David had a little too much fun with the horse.

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On Christmas Eve we took the boys on a car ride through a local neighborhood to see some Christmas lights.

Gabriel wanted to wear Mommy’s hat. I think it looks much better on him.

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I think he had some fun in the backseat wearing his jammies.

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You probably can’t see this clearly but it’s the Grinch stealing Christmas. A+ for creativity.

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We thought it was cute that one of our neighbors crammed three inflatables onto their balcony. 013 (2)

It seems like no one decorates their homes for the holidays anymore. We probably saw about 12 houses total on the half hour car ride we took. Pretty disappointing. Next year we are going to have to hit up the fancy light show that’s close to us.

Rafael hasn’t really made an appearance so here he is with his Daddy. Don’t they look alike. Especially the hairline… 014

On Christmas day we waited until Gabriel woke up to open up gifts. He got the hang of opening gifts on his own. He was also good on moving onto the next gift before wanting to play with the toy. Excuse the blurry pictures. I only had my phone on me while nursing Rafael.

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We got him a LeapFrog laptop so he can work on it just like daddy.

Before we left for my Grandparent’s house we had to find the pickle. It’s a cute tradition that David introduced to me. Gabriel found the pickle before daddy did. 016

My Grandparents brought back all the gifts from the night before. I didn’t take a picture of the pre Christmas Eve gathering (hands full with Rafael) but their pile was double this… I think they made out very well this year.20121225_123022

Side story: Gabriel was terrified of the horse at Aunt Barbara’s house. He just wanted nothing to do with it. I wanted to show my grandparents the horse (because it’s so cute and awesome). I took it for a spin around the kitchen once and Gabriel was all for playing with it. He even tormented their dogs with the horse head.20121225_133303

When we got back home all the boys went promptly into dreamland. Not sure why I didn’t drift off either.028

I loved receiving everyone’s holiday cards. Christmas time is the best time to look at the mail. It’s a guaranteed time that there is something other than bills in the mail.  029

I’ve enjoyed reading everyone’s recap on their Christmas Festivities. Kind of makes me feel like I was apart of the party.

Hope everyone has a safe and happy New Year. And if you go to a party, have a drink for me. Or three. :)


Shopping

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Yesterday I took my grandmother and Mr. G shopping. We spent all day running around that we went into bottle time. She volunteered to help me so u could get done faster. He’s too heavy to carry around and she felt bad feeding him while he sat in the cart. So what does my grandma do?

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Why stick him in the cart and push him around of course! I’m not going to win mom if the year awards anytime soon.